A British man says his relationship with his girlfriend has gone from strength to strength since he suggested she sleep with other guys while he was at work.
Matt, who declined to give his last name, spoke out about his frisky four-year relationship with ladylove Zoe in an interview for the YouTube series Love Don’t Judge.
The 36-year-old said he and Zoe, 31, had only been dating for a few months when he suggested she start having sex with other men.
“When agreed to it, I was happy, because I’d been cheated on before, so I was quite happy to find someone who wasn’t gonna cheat back,” Matt told the program.
The unconventional arrangement helped eliminate the paranoia that had permeated the jilted Brit’s previous relationships while unlocking new levels of trust, intimacy and communication with Zoe.
Zoe’s raunchy sex sessions took place while Matt was at work, but that didn’t mean he had to miss out on the fun.
He proposed that Zoe record her flings with the male strangers, a kinky request to which she agreed.
“You’d send me pictures, videos,” Matt recalled while speaking to Zoe.
“I ended up being involved in it virtually… It was like my own amateur porn.” Matt told the program that all of Zoe’s sex partners were “young” and “good-looking” and admits that it can cause him to feel some jealousy.
“It’s quite a nice feeling, even though it’s jealousy,” he explained.” Because at the end of the day you know you’re included, and she’s coming home to me.”
Two years ago, Matt even encouraged Zoe to start making some money from her sex-cursions and urged her to start an OnlyFans account. Since that time, the racy redhead has become a bona fide star on the adults-only subscription site, with Matt all too happy to share his girlfriend virtually as well as physically.
Despite facing skepticism from friends, the couple insists they deeply love one another and wouldn’t change their relationship for anything.
They also insist that they are not “cheating” on one another because there is no secrecy surrounding their sex-ploits. “It’s just people not understanding,” Zoe moaned of her critics. “Educate yourself!”
