March is women’s history month, that represents a global commitment to rights, justice, and action for all women and girls. In line with what women stand for, Teresa Oyibo Ameh, known as Aunty Talatu, says her happiest moment is when she feeds the needy. She bares her mind in this interview with Stellamaries Amuwa.
Briefly tell us about yourself
Aunty Talatu is also Teresa Ameh. I am a recently retired civil servant, an author of ten published children’s books, initiator, Aunty Talatu Reads Foundation, member President, 1000 African Women Network, Patroness, Abuja Literary Society, Poets in Nigeria etc. I am also a Trustee of the Northern Nigeria Writers Summit.
When was Aunty Talatu Reads Foundation established
The Aunty Talatu Reads Foundation was established to encourage reading in children and was later expanded to empower the Girl Child. Presently, I am member of the FCT Basketball Caretaker Committee. I must say, I am a woman who wears many caps or tie several geles.
You have overtime become a great writer. What inspired you into writing children’s books?
When you write for children, you play several roles. I write because I am in the business of shaping unformed lives. I tell them stories that enable them to become better adults in future, to become great readers, to become great leaders. I believe children should be encouraged in their formative years. We have to start shaping people from their foundations.
What makes you happy?
I am happiest when I can feed the needy. A percentage of what comes into my pocket goes to the needy. Their satisfaction makes me happy. The smiles on the faces of the orphans and widows makes my smiles wider. I also love my family, my son, nephews, nieces, they give me joy.
What do you love most about Aunty Talatu?
Aunty Talatu is a selfless person, who is passionate about what she does. I am also a contented person, who can survive anywhere. Wealth and comfort mean nothing to me, except when channeled into being used in the service of humanity. I also have strong family values and believe I must be there for family.
Aside from writing, what are other things you do?
I read, I read extensively. I visit children homes especially when I need to relax. Being in the midst of children is therapeutic for adults. You draw from their purity, their innocence and the love they give is devoid of pretense.
How do you relax when not writing?
Find out what you enjoy doing without stress. Laugh a lot, be happy, stay happy.
What does fashion mean to you?
Fashion should make you look good and feel good too. Whatever you wear should be comfortable and easy. You don’t need to impress anyone. Be decent. I love perfumes, good bags and lots and lots of Ankara. I love to walk into a room with so much confidence.
Where do you see yourself in the next 10 years?
I see myself taking it easy and doing omugo from house to house.
What is your philosophy?
Be good, do good. Nobody is perfect but don’t be ungrateful. So many people are hurting. Stop hurting people who were there for you. Make promises and keep them. Remember God, every good turn is rewarded and karma is real.
March represents women’s month, a dedicated time to celebrate the achievements of women worldwide. What’s your advice for women?
We have an apt theme for this years International Women’s Day. Give to Gain. One day, some of those you give to will remember you when they grow. A percentage of them. It might not be all. Let us strive to develop humanity in our little ways. The world will be a better place.
